My boyfriend, my sister and her boyfriend are all hanging out in my room watching a movie and having a good time. Everyone is seated on my bed while I’m on the floor in front of the doorway. There is a pet in the room, making its rounds to everyone on the bed to be petted. I see our other pet in the door way, a big dog, making its way up the stairs to join us in my room. He chooses to sit and lay with me, and I feel very happy. My bf climbs down the bed and sits in front of me and the pet laying with me. He calls it over and tries to get it to come to him. It does not. He keeps trying until it finally does and I am angered and upset by this. The pet who originally was laying with me goes to him and gets petted by him briefly before going up the bed and not coming back. I am angry at my bf and this upsets him. He leaves and he calls me on my phone, proceeding to tell me I am selfish and breaks up with me. I start telling him all the things I resent about him, being defensive but also hoping he’d stay and work it out. The last thing I told him before waking up from the dream was how everytime we argue, it’s me who’s fighting for the relationship to work out and stay together while he gives up so easily.
This dream may symbolize feelings of insecurity or jealousy within your relationship. The presence of your sister and her boyfriend suggests the idea of comparison and possibly feeling overshadowed or left out. The pets in the dream represent affection and attention, with one choosing to be with you and bringing you happiness. However, when your boyfriend tries to compete for the pet's attention, it triggers anger and upset within you, revealing underlying feelings of possessiveness or a fear of losing his affection.
The argument and breakup in the dream may reflect unresolved issues or resentment that you may be experiencing in your waking life. It highlights a sense of feeling unsupported or unequal in the effort put into maintaining the relationship. You may feel as though you are always fighting to keep the relationship alive while your boyfriend gives up easily. These feelings and concerns are likely being played out and amplified in your dream, urging you to communicate and address these issues in your waking life in order to find a resolution or a better understanding of each other's needs.